even though we do judge, true judgment of these virtues of others is not ours to perform nor exercise. but we would instead only hope to tune our tendencies away from mistreating others as well as judging.
so as it is written in all that is conveyed to script, love thy neighbor, do unto others as you would have them do unto you, good forward, good backward.
do these things with conviction, fore when you meet the holder of final judgment, you will not be asked of what others attended.
when Jesus gave grace, he gave that to all.